On Dreaming too small


We were NEVER meant to scrape by through life.

If there’s more stress than joy in your marriage, You’re scraping by

If there’s more panic than abundance in your finances, You’re scraping by

If there’s more sickness than health in your life, You’re scraping by

If, for whatever reason, the amount of anxiety far exceeds the amount of joy You experience every day- You. Are. Scraping. by!

These are hard things for me to say because I never ever want people to feel condemned by me- but this is not a condemnation. This is a call for us to demand more from life than what we’re getting!

To demand from ourselves MORE than what we’ve settled for!

And to receive more from our God who’s already given but- Why on earth aren’t we receiving?

Yesterday I heard someone say, “God is tired of You shouting over things You’re not possessing”.

There was a time this year I got SO tired of it myself that I yelled: “God I’m tired of scraping! I’m TIRED of shouting over Your goodness, and Your abundance and STILL scraping by!”

I asked God to help me get out of the constant scraping.

He’s been faithful.

It hasn’t been a once-off download but He’s been showing me some powerful things.

If You’re in a similar space- that place where you’re so tired of “almost” making it- exhausted with scraping by in an area of your life where You know it can be loads better- then, from what I’ve learned and experienced, the very first step is to decide the “scraping” stops now.

Before that decision is made nothing else can be done to change your situation.

You may do a number of things- but You probably already have, and still You end up at the same place.

Making that decision is vital.

When You do, at first, nothing changes.

When you make the decision You may feel utterly stupid because everything will seem the same, at first.

But it won’t be!

A MASSIVE shift will happen in the atmosphere.

If you’ve come to”accept” where You are- if for whatever reason You’ve made “peace” with it- if You’re still asking God if this “scraping” is His will or given room to the idea that God’s teaching You something through this- then maybe You’re not ready just yet.

There has to be a rage at your current situation-

and an absolute conviction in Your heart that this is NOT how things are meant to be.

Once You decide that You WILL have more. That decision brings about a powerful shift.

When that shift happens, things on the inside of you start shifting as well- it’s a process but one that leads You to what You’re meant to have.

Most of us pin our problems on God- thinking He’s the one to fix our issues.

But, The power to make the shift between scraping by and living the dream has been given to us!

Most of us are dreaming far too small.

We’re settling for far to little.

Isn’t there a part of You that’s tired of shouting over things You’re not Possessing?


Hannah Viviers is the Creator and Host of the Dream BIG TV Show

YOU can STOP the beggar mentality!

No Food for Lazy Man is a Non-Profit organisation founded by extreme Adventurer, Riaan Manser, to provide disadvantaged children with a sporting chance at a brighter future.
No Food for Lazy Man is a Non-Profit organisation founded by extreme Adventurer, Riaan Manser, to provide disadvantaged children with a sporting chance at a brighter future.


Years ago I interviewed a top Government official from the Eritrean Government. Eritrea had just passed legislation that stopped free aid to its country.

I was horrified!

How could such a poor country stop aid that was “helping” its people!

“This free aid is not helping our people!” The Government official said to me.

“We’re not stopping aid completely. But, what we have said to aid organisations is we want our people to WORK in exchange for what they receive.”

At the time I didn’t understand this official- but today- how I wish more government officials all over the world stood for this principle.

We live in a world that encourages poverty, feeds it and perpetuates it.

We think it’s benevolent- No, it’s evil.

Few traffic lights in South Africa are void of beggars. They’re multiplying every day because people think it’s kind to give them money-

I’d gone to the labour office the other day- when I got to my car it’d been washed super clean.

The young man who’d washed it was still cleaning my tyres- I didn’t have money with me and said to him, “Thank You so much my car really needed that wash! But my brother you should’ve asked me. You’ve done such a great job! But I don’t have money to pay you!”

“It’s ok ma’am,” the young man said. And he told me he still wanted to finish cleaning my tyres.

I could’ve cried at his diligence!

I couldn’t leave without paying for his great service. I searched every nook and cranny of my bag and car- I gathered everything I had, but still it wasn’t enough.

I didn’t forget that young man. I knew I’d be back at the labour office and I’d pay him properly for washing my car.

The following week I was back. I back paid him for the previous wash. He was eager to wash the car again- this time I’d come prepared to properly pay for his service…

That young man could easily stand on the side of the road and beg- but in the face of limited employment opportunities he has created work for himself.

We might say, “Yeah, but not everyone’s like that!” But I bet you that everyone would be if

we didn’t feed them for FREE!

I know a lot of people dislike car guards. But from my experience, I think it’s honourable that those men and women choose to work for money rather than beg- or steal.

Not all of them are great- but many of the car guards I’ve experienced are fantastic! They provide a service which essentially is work.

It might be work some don’t appreciate, but it’s work nevertheless.

It beats standing on the side of the road and having other people give you money for nothing!

Go to any other African country and it’s rare to find a beggar- because for the most part, people in those countries are struggling and work insanely hard to put food on the table every day-

they have no time or tolerance for someone who won’t do the same.

We’re told that beggars hire children, or sometimes even use their own, to sit in the scorching heat all day- so You and I can feel sorry for them because of that child they’ve dragged out to use as a begging prop for our pity. And we fund and reward that kind of behaviour! It’s criminal what we’re doing!

My mom once offered domestic employment to a woman she often saw begging on the side of the road. The woman wasn’t even a tad keen to hear what my mom would pay her- she simply answered that she was getting more money begging.

I don’t, for one minute, believe that there are “no jobs” and that’s why people beg.

That’s nonsense!

If a person can beg, they can get themselves to a mall and find a job in a store or they can wait tables- a job my brothers and I did for many years-

Beggars beg because they’d rather do that than work. It’s a choice they make. And one we support by giving them money!

We have young girls in our society, breeding when they have no way of supporting their children, because they receive a few free hundred rands in child grants.

I say “breeding” because that’s what Governments degrade our young girls to when they fund them to have children they shouldn’t be having!

But it’s “politically incorrect” to say these things!

And it’s only a “very privileged somebody” who’s never suffered who would say such dreadful things!

Political correctness is killing our economy and stifling young people’s potential for greatness.

If young mothers had to do some kind of public service for the money they receive it’s almost guaranteed they wouldn’t want to have children for the sake of getting those grants.

Our Public Hospitals for instance, desperately needs extra hands- those young mothers use the public health care system, for virtually no pay, plus they receive grants- the least they can do is serve there for the money they receive!

But no! We can’t do that!

The social grants increase every year, and as they rise so do poverty levels.

I was surprised to hear that in the US there are young girls there who do the same- because the State will give them a few dollars for their children.

The UK is also notorious for giving people who refuse to work benefits that people who work pay for!

If we scrapped child grants, children wouldn’t starve- their mothers would work! AND they would be very mindful of having more children they can’t support!

Instead of child grants, how about we provide free (or very affordable), proper, child care so moms can work, and healthy meals are provided for those children at the day care centres?

Not a cent should go to the mom!

Instead, child grants would all go to kids receiving great foundational education at those child care centres I mentioned, where they’d be safe and well fed.

If we really “cared for the children” wouldn’t this be a better option than dishing out money to a person not mature enough to realise that you don’t bring a child into this world so that YOU can get a few bucks!

The only money she should ever get is money she earns.

For the longest time I have believed that Governments that run countries with high levels of poverty WANT it this way.

My mentor Sandi Krakowski, who lives in the States’, which is also notorious for keeping certain parts of the population poor, put it brilliantly by saying,

“The Government wants to keep you stupid and poor so you’re easier to control!”

And that’s a fact!

Some may say, oh that Sandi is a privileged someone who doesn’t know what it’s like to be poor.

If anyone has a right to whine about the raw deal she got in life it’s this incredible woman.

She was molested as a child, gang raped in her early twenties, at one point was a single mommy with a small child she had no idea how she’d feed-

Yet she is the same person who says, “Your story doesn’t give you the right to whine!”

Sandi said she could’ve gotten on welfare to support her little boy- but she knew that once she got into that system, she might never have gotten out of it because she believed welfare was designed to keep people poor.

Sandi is now a multi-millionaire business woman whose won various accolades for being one of the most influential people in Social Media.

I remember interviewing extreme adventurer Riaan Manser and him sharing about his work in underprivileged schools.

He told me how poor the areas he worked in were. And yet he said he would tell the kids, “I know it feels you don’t have a choice, but You do. You can come to school on time. You can keep your uniform tidy- you can work hard…”

He went on to say that the changes they see in these schools are remarkable, as he motivates these young men and women in some of the most impoverished parts of South Africa.

No person of integrity ever gets rich without hard work.

If you want a nice a car, nice house, great education for your kids- it will never come from a handout. People who have these things work very hard for them.

There was time in my childhood when we were poor.

My parents, two brothers and I lived in a one bed-roomed apartment. We all slept on one mattress. We would wash Styrofoam bases we’d bought food on and use them as dishes.

I remember once being so hungry I couldn’t get up from bed.

Eventually my mom started selling doilies which she would put out on the ground outside a mall- she started that business with R70 and built it to the point where she was able to help my dad give us a decent life.

My brothers and I grew up helping out in that little business.

I remember my little brothers doing work that was way beyond their years- but it prepared them for the incredible hard workers they are now.

I put myself through school.

I went to college in the day and waited tables at night.

I worked my butt off in college so I could get scholarships and bursaries, which I did.

After finishing high school my one brother left home when he was 16 in the hope of finding work in another province.

My other brother followed him shortly after.

They started slogging away at restaurants, it was hard going for them- but they never moved back home because they were determined to support themselves.

My brothers didn’t have anyone pay for their education- they found work and through that work they’ve received all the training and qualifications they now have.

Few have had it easy in this life. We all have stories.

Through my work at Dream BIG I’ve encountered people who had such raw deals from life that would make most of us crumble.

Among them my dear friend Sihle Magubane who lost his mom at 16. She was his only caregiver. At 16, young Sihle had to find a way to bury his mom, which meant him paying for her funeral.

He worked three jobs- went to school and raised his two younger siblings.

Sihle has never, not once in his life, been given a handout.

Today he owns South Africa’s very first individually black-owned Coffee Brand, Sihle’s Brew. He recently opened his Coffee Shop, ‘Coffee Time by Sihle’s Brew’, a dream he’d had for years…

Sihle is not the only one.

There are thousands of stories just like his.

Another woman I came across through Dream BIG came from one of the most impoverished rural areas of our country.

She lived in a two bedroom house with seven family members.

Her desire to build her parents a better home and improve the lives of her siblings led to her starting a cleaning company in which she manufactures her own soap. She now has hundreds of people on her staff!

No one “gave” that to her. She is a self-made entrepreneur!

We are stifling this kind of potential by perpetuating a “get it for free” mentality.

NOTHING is for free. There’s always someone footing the bill.

On one hand tax payers have to pay, on the other, the people receiving the free money stay poor because free money will never create wealth- it’s always temporary and never enough.

We might not be able to change the laws that are perpetuating poverty just yet but we can start the change by refusing to fund a beggar mentality.

Beggars won’t starve. They’ll find work- and they’ll eat.


Hannah Viviers is the Creator and Host of the Dream BIG TV Show

Not just a dance

By Tertia Butler

When I was younger I started dance classes. I enjoyed it so much that my mom said I could join an extra class for competitions.


At the time, my family was struggling financially so it was hard for my parents to support my dancing. My amazing Aunt stepped in to ensure I could pursue my love for dance.

For me dancing was a way for me to escape my reality

It was a place that made me feel powerful and strong.

I got to wear some stunning costumes, full on make up and nail polish.

Basically, dancing  it made me feel like I was pretty and I always looked stunning. 
Basically, dancing  made me feel like I was pretty and I always looked stunning.

Dancing also made me feel really good about myself. It was my passion!

I lived and breathed it!

Dancing was an act, a performance,  a show. I could be anything I wanted to be and it was accepted.


I had a knee injury during high school and had to leave dancing.

I was devastated as I missed out on the opportunity to compete overseas, represent South Africa and get  my National colours.

When I was older I worked at an aftercare centre.

I fell pregnant and resigned from the centre due to complications with my pregnancy.

After my son was born the Centre’s owner asked me if I would be interested in teaching dance there. I jumped at the opportunity and started my own studio.

At the time I didn’t feel that I would be able to do it as I’d never made it into any Championship levels, or even completed a teachers’ certificate.

I didn’t feel I was a very strong dancer.

After a few months of teaching I realised that I was much better at teaching than actually dancing.

At every competition my students participated in, they were placed. From 1st place to 6th place.

This made me feel very good

My studio began to receive recognition from other studios- even from my old dance teacher who I’d always felt didn’t think I was good enough.

After 4 years of teaching I fell pregnant again.

Again, complications with my pregnancy arose.

My placenta tore and I was ordered to strict bed rest for my entire pregnancy.

I was forced to close down my studio.

It’s years later since then, but

I never lost that burning desire to dance.

I’ve been feeling God pulling me into Praise and Worship dancing.

Earlier this year I was asked to speak at The Beautiful Series Event.

In preparation for my talk I wrote down my story.

In it I spoke of how I’d been molested as a child. And how God, and the love of my husband, had healed me and restored my once very poor image of myself.

As I wrote my testimony, it struck me! I hadn’t realised what I’d gone through, and where I was, until after I’d actually put it all on paper.

Before I was to speak at The Beautiful Series Event, I attended a women’s camp on the weekend of July 29.

I had just finished writing my testimony for The Beautiful Series.

During supper at camp everyone was discussing what they were getting out of the weekend. Somehow I ended up saying that I was going to share my testimony at the upcoming Beautiful Series Event.

As the words were coming out of my mouth, I realised that God had set me free from all my bondage!

As I was sharing with the ladies at camp,  I felt a sense of relief and freedom that I’d never felt before!

I realised that God had broken the chains that had been holding me back!

During that evening’s session at camp, I found myself saying:

“Wow God, I’m free!”

I kind of laughed about it as I realised that I had been free for a while I just hadn’t known I was.

I was like:

“Wow God! You actually did it!”

I was in disbelief that He would love me enough to do this for me.

I started to look around and I saw so many broken people.

I said to myself that their breakthrough would come.

I sat there and said to God “I can’t believe I am free! Now what Lord? I’m free… Where do I go from here?”

There was a lady singing a Prophetic Word over a woman a few seats behind me.

I jokingly said to God, I wish she would sing over me.

A second after I’d just whispered that to God the singing woman said: “The lady wearing glasses over there, in black…”

I kind of looked around and realised- oh wait she’s talking to me!


She began to sing these words over me:

Anointing your feet tonight with fresh oils, because when you dance the heavenlies grounds shake. As it brings glory and honour to My Name. It brings honour and glory to My Name.

“So never let negativity or depression or opinions of man keep you from dancing my daughter, dance your heart out,  dance, dance, dance, dance, dance your heart out!  Dance, dance, dance your heart out.

“It moves Me so, it blesses Me so. You are My daughter you are a beautiful fragrance.

“You will be in places where there is depression and you will dance and my joy will fill the atmosphere.

“I am calling you to a new place of obedience.

“You will have the umption to dance.

“Daughter just dance and you will see what I will do through you.  “Mountains will shake, deserts will break open into spring.

“It’s a new season of obedience.

“Even if you don’t understand just dance and dance and you will see what I will do through you.”

I was in tears.

I couldn’t believe God loved me enough to answer me so quickly!

He knew how passionate I was about dancing! How I loved Praise and Worship dancing!

But I still had a question: Should I do anything about it now?

Then the most amazing thing happened: Hannah Viviers, from The Beautiful Series Event asked if I would be interested in doing a dance for her upcoming event on February 4, 2017!

I was totally blown away by God’s plan!

And how He was putting things into motion for me!

Hannah went on to tell me that she’d actually wanted to ask me to dance way before the first Beautiful Series Event- but God’s timing is perfect. He needed me to first hear His Prophetic Word over me.

He is calling me to a new place of obedience and I can’t wait to see what He has in store for me.

Tertia Butler is a wife, Rocker mom of two, writer and entrepreneur- She’ll be dancing at The Beautiful Series Event on Feb 4, 2017.

Tertia speaking at the Launch of The Beautiful Series Event, October 1, 2016


Why not NOW?

Patience is better than pride

By Duduzile Ndlovu


A long time ago, it could be two decades ago, teenage me read a devotional that asked me to choose if I wanted to be Joseph or Samson.

Joseph had a dream; he saw his future and was so excited that he told his brothers about it.

His father saw his future too and made him a beautiful coat.

He lost the coat when his brothers sold him into slavery.

He lost another coat he had as head servant in Potiphar’s house.

Joseph seemed to be going down down down and not up up up. Yet when his time came, his name was mentioned to the right person at the right time and overnight Joseph became second only to the king.

 Samson’s life on the other hand…

did not end on a high note like Joseph’s.

Samson had the gift and strength but he didn’t have the character to sustain it.

Although his life ended with him killing many Philistines, one can’t help but wonder what could have been.

What could we be reading about Samson had he listened to his parents and not married a Philistine?

What could have been, had Samson learnt to buffet his body in order to gain the kingdom?

So I decided I wanted to be a Joseph.

I wanted a good ending.

I wanted to go through the process and carry God’s glory well.

Fast-forward to this year…

There’s a big project I’ve been working on.

My plan was to finish it this year.

I grew impatient with myself- the process was taking too long!

Then God led me to this Scripture:

“The end of a matter is better than its beginning,

and patience is better than pride.”

Ecclesiastes 7:8

 I didn’t like it. Especially that last bit- “…patience is better than pride” –  it got me.

But still I thought: I’m ok God. Can we get back to talking about me finishing this project?

It took me the whole year to complete only a tiny bit  of work that I could have done overnight because I didn’t want to let God talk about my pride.

It would be so easy for God to answer my prayer to just finish but He is always interested not in the outward things but He looks at the heart (1 Samuel 6:17).

We need to trust in the process.

God takes us through even when everything seems to be going against the vision we have and every prophetic word we received.

Like Joseph you might be going down, down down! Yet in that going down, God was laying,  in Joseph’s heart, the foundation- the capacity for Joseph to represent Him well when he got to be second in command to Pharaoh in Egypt.

Why the process?

I spent some of my childhood years in a new township.

I got to see what happens when people prepare the ground to build a house.

First the area on which the house is to be built is measured and marked out.

The external walls and every division inside the house are marked as well.

There’s an outline of the house where you can see how many rooms the house will have, where the bathroom, kitchen and bedrooms will be…

Once the outline has been marked out, then the digging begins.

The builders dig a foundation for the house along the outline that had been drawn and pour concrete into it.

The higher the building, the deeper the foundation must be. 

They wait for the concrete to set before building the walls of the house, adding a floor, and the roof.

Recently as we were praying God reminded me of this picture-

My heart was a construction site.

The Bible says out of the abundance of the heart the mouth speaks (Matthew 12:34b).

Guard your heart with all diligence for out of it flow the issues of life (Proverbs 4:23).

Our hearts are central to who we are and that is where God is laying the foundation for our lives.

We are ambassadors of God’s Kingdom.

In our own unique way we are temples of the Holy Spirit.

We are designed to carry God’s glory and to represent Him well.

Sometimes God will show us a glimpse of who He’s calling us to be.

Maybe you’ve seen the outline of the house God has designed you to be.

You’ve seen exactly where each room will be and the layout of the house… but you’ve only seen the outline.

We might get confused when God starts digging because it feels like we’re coming undone.

The building should be going up but our lives look messy, dusty and seem to be falling apart.

The vision is for an appointed time. It will speak and not lie. (Habakkuk 2:3).

Stay with the process.

Let God dig out the things you have that will cloud His glory.

God is digging a foundation that will carry the house that He is calling us to be.

We all have different platforms and some people are entrusted with one talent, two talents or five talents.

Imagine being entrusted to represent God to millions, a worldwide audience. When your house is built and so many are looking up to you, You want to carry His glory and represent Him well.

You do not want to fail.

Yes God is already proud of us.

Jesus already did everything for us to be everything God has called us to be.

Yet He also calls us to steward the talents He’s entrusted to us (Matthew 25:14-30).

We want to be like the three Hebrew boys who were thrown into the fire but came out without, even, the smell of fire on them! (Daniel 3:27).

We are all enthusiastic and raring to go when we get the vision.

But God is interested in us also finishing well.

To finish well,  patience is better than pride.

We have to allow the process God is taking us through.

Allow the foundation to take root and to set.

Then the building begins to take shape.

We can be like Joseph who was betrayed by his brothers, wrongly accused, jailed and forgotten by someone who owed him a favor.

When he got to the platform God had called him to, he didn’t carry any bitterness. He was able to see the process for what it was.

Joseph represented God well.

His end was better than his beginning!

Duduzile Ndlovu is a Passionate Lover of Life, Researcher, Mom and Wife. 

Duduzile Ndlovu